There are many men out there who only want to hook up and have zero interest in a relationship. Are some women out there only after sex? Sure, there might be a few of them out there, but the majority of women in LA want something serious and meaningful. Men are much more capable of having a purely sexual relationship than women are. Unfortunately, (thanks to online dating sites & mobile dating apps) some men are only after casual hookups. Not every man you encounter in the LA dating scene is going to be serious about dating you.